Great Married Sex The honeymoon may be over, but you can keep things hot in the bedroom by learning a few simple and seductive sex tricks…
TURN HIM ON
It's not uncommon for women to feel shy about being the sexual initiator, but the rewards are usually worth the initial embarrassment as most men feel flattered at being desired and will respond with enthusiasm! If you are not sure what your partner really wants ask him. find out how he would like you to go about initiating sex.
BECOME A MASTER OF MASTURBATION
Research shows that masturbation is the foundation for good partner sex and is in itself a wonderful outlet (to release sexual tension or just plain relax). explore your genitals with your hands and a hand-held mirror. Find out what's down there, and learn to love it. Once you do that, you will be able to tell or show a partner how you like to be touched.
THE NAKED CHEF
In his new book ‘mind blowing sex (£14.99 ryland peters & small) author paul scott highlights what a tasty combination sex and food can make, suggesting lots of ways to mix food and fun.
“Little champagne bubbles popping against your skin is a tasty sensation, but the same feeling against your genital flesh is not to be missed.. if you don’t drink alcohol sparkling water will do the trick.
Moveable feasts: have some messy fun on a plastic sheet: write your fantasies in food on each others’ naked bodies; challenge your partner to lick off as much liquid chocolate as they can handle! Fans call this splosh! as there’s even a genre of colourful photography devoted to it.
Experiment with food and temperatures, but avoid hot food of course. ice cream, fancy fruits and honey all make a delicious feast of sexy fun. trail them around your genitals as part of oral sex. Don’t stick to sweet foods either – all the old jokes about cucumber are true!”
GET THE BUZZ ON VIBRATORS
Vibrators can add a fun new dimention to your love making. there are many different types of vibrators and dildos on the market today, giving you a wide and, at times, somewhat confusing and overwhelming array of products to choose from. check out the wide selection available at anne summers.
INTRODUCE HIM TO FOREPLAY
Often a man is stimulated sexually by what he sees - men tend to respond to visuals, while women tend to respond more to what they hear and feel. That said, some men do need to be touched or cajoled into action more directly. The first and basic rule is to ask. ask him what he likes, needs and wants as a turn-on.
BE POSITIVE
Both women and men have said their best partners were not the best-looking, did not have the best bodies and weren’t the most sexually experienced. What they did have was the best attitude about sex - they wanted to be there, and they were enthusiastic. That is what made them attractive and desirable.
KISS YOUR WAY TO BETTER SEX
for a sizzling start to foreplay try these kissing techniques:
Lipping: slip your partner's lips from between yours as if you're catching pudding that's falling off a spoon.
Tonguing: the tissue underneath the tongue is very sensitive, as is the ridge under the upper lip.
Love-biting: nibble with teeth; press with lips.
Sucking: sucking your partner's tongue stimulates the salivary glands underneath, which produce saliva that is extremely sweet.
Blowing: exhaling and inhaling over moistened lips is especially arousing.
HAVE AN EROTIC DISCUSSION
You'd be surprised how many women confess to liking sexy talk, dirty talk, or any type of verbal exchange that allows them to play with the idea of being less of a good girl.
LEARN TO BE MORE INTIMATE
To achieve mind-blowing orgasms, you need more than your partner's cooperation; you both need a sense of trust and caring, says sex therapist barbara keesling, ph.d., author of discover your sensual potential.
GOING TO A TREAT
There are many tricks to performing great oral sex. one of the most important things to remember is that oral sex doesn’t have to involve placing the entire penis in your mouth. You can learn to become a skilled oral lover without having to perform such acts. Many men enjoy the sheer pleasure of being licked along the shaft or on the highly sensitive coronal ridge (the ridge around the head), of being teased gently with little bites around the head (be very gentle) and even light sucking on the head.
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