Sex Bomb Sex experts reveal a few tricks of the trade for newly weds who want the sex on their honeymoon to be even better than before…
The one big advantage an established couple have over a new partnership is that there's a level of trust that makes it more comfortable to ask for something different and new. Here’s a few fruity ides to try for a blissfully sexy honeymoon…
BRIEF ENCOUNTER
Fill your suitcase with sexy lingerie, but make sure its what he likes as sex writer and coach Wendy Bristown explains. “Although women are drawn to pretty, girlie numbers, men need something more raunchy and dramatic to stimulate them. If you’re pale skinned, avoid pastels, white and cream and wear black or red. If you’re dark-skinned, avoid pastels and black and wear white or red.”
SEXY SETTING
It's worth making the effort to prepare your space for sex. Feeling happy in your physical environment will help you relax and increase your sensory awareness. Sylvia Milton, relationship expert and sex counselor at The Priory suggests the following. “In terms of the actual room, bearing in mind it is likely to be in a hotel - you need to try and make it as sexy as possible - be this with rose petals scattered on the bed and in the bath, scarlet ribbons tied around the bed post and scented candles softly lighting the room, being careful not to set the room on fire. Succulent fruits in bowls should be placed around the room, with champagne on ice (but not 'too' much - it should be a memorable experience after all!!).”
EXPLORE NEW TERRITORY
Another tip would be to go to a place for a honeymoon that is new to both parties, so that you don't have any past memories associated with the location i.e. old flames,” advises Sylvia. “Then it’s time to explore. Trying sex in a location where you’ve never had it before - e.g the bath, a rug in front of the fire or the beach - will create a new, exciting experience which will make your honeymoon unforgettable."
BATH FOR TWO
Sex is much more enjoyable if you are both squeaky clean, but instead of having individual showers why not take advantage of the hotel’s huge bath tub.
“ Set the scene by packing every safe and available surface in your bathroom with candles, then turn the lights out,” says sex counsellor Suzi Hayman. “Fill your bath to the brim with hot water, and make it scented and luxurious by pouring in a generous amount of bath oil or gel. You could also use incense or burn essential oils in a purpose-made burner. Jasmine, rose, orange blossom, sandlewood or ylang-ylang are supposed to be particularly sexy.”
“Listen to the sound of lapping water, watch the flicker of candlelight and revel in the soothing sensation of oils and foam. When you're fully relaxed, use a brush or a loofah and plenty of shower gel or soap to work up a lather. Scrub each other all over and add a blast of cold water or rub an ice cube on sensitive spots to get your skin tingling. Follow up with soft flannels and sponges to soothe and smooth. Finish off by wrapping each other in a large, warm towel.”
PLAY GAMES
Now you’re married there are no holds barred so its time to have some fun. “Playing doctors and nurses is a great place to start as it gives you both the opportunity to ask all the questions you'd never dare ask when making love because it would be a total passion wrecker,” explains psychosexual counsellor Paula Hall. “Take it in turns to examine each other to your hearts content and with appropriate physical gentleness have a poke and a prod and check out the territory. Ask all the questions you like. Can you feel that? What's this for? How far back can it go? When you've finished your examination - swap roles.”
“ It's a very silly exercise. But next time you're making love, you'll be surprised how handy those bits of information might be. Knowing how the territory looks helps enormously with orientation.”
FOOD FEAST
“ A dozen oysters or Quails eggs and champagne followed by asparagus and a platter of exotic fruit, vegetables and cheese, finished off by figs and chocolate, can certainly leave lovers feeling cherished and in the mood to carry on spoiling each other,” reveals Suzi Hayman, sex and relationships counsellor. “If you really want to give your lover the message, invite them to prepare a meal with you. Choose foods you both like and can eat by hand and feed each other titbits across the table.”
5 GUARANTEED TURN-ONS
- Morning sex. What man doesn’t like to be woken up with a kiss?
- Alfresco fun. Enjoying a midnight walk along the beach? Why not drag him into a nearby bush for some spontaneous sex. The element of risk will make it all the more thrilling.
- Siesta surprise. Saving sex for bedtime can get boring. Take a break from your sightseeing in the afternoon and head back to your hotel room for an afternoon nap, only this time skip the sleeping part.
- Dirty talk. Over dinner, whisper to your husband what you would like to do to him if you went back to the hotel room - we bet you don’t hang around for dessert.
- Plan an all day sex session. Draw up a timetable of fun things to do to each other – from morning massages to tantric tricks and stick to it
5 GUARANTEED TURN-ONS
- Sun burn. Sore peeling skin isn’t much of a turn on. Make sure the action between the sheets is hotter than your skin by packing a high SPF suncream.
- Having a row. Try not to get stressed on your honeymoon as this is one of the biggest passion killers. Keep smiling and let all the feel-good endorphins get to work.
- Nagging. Do this, do that…Boss your man around too much and you’ll reduce his ego and sex drive to zero.
- TAT – Talking All the Time. It may not sound too serious, but non-stop chatter about yourself can be boring and if you don’t let the other person get a word in edgewise they will start to think that you don’t care about them. So put that tongue to better use…
- Moaning. Nobody likes a moaner, especially one who is on their honeymoon. Okay, so you don’t have the biggest room the hotel, but you do have a gorgeous new husband in your bed!
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