Lough Eske Castle
Justin Alexander
Hayes & Jarvis
Casablanca Bridal
Manor House

An African Love Story

~ Zoë and Simon's Real Life Wedding

We join Zoë and Simon as they talk us through their big day.
Ceremony at Ardess Parish Church, Kesh, Co. Fermanagh
Reception at Lusty Beg Island Resort
30th June 2018

How They Met

Zoë Deazley and Simon Matovu met a couple of years after Zoë visited Uganda to volunteer with a charity, where she immediately felt at home with the people and culture.

In 2015, the summer team she led travelled home, but she decided to stay for another couple of weeks, working in the Kampala office of the charity, where she was placed in the child sponsorship department, alongside Simon Matovu. They immediately hit it off, with Simon having her laughing within minutes. Zoë comments ‘he was the most Irish-like Ugandan I had ever met! We had so much in common, from our love of God to our passion for helping orphaned children. We worked together that week and I quickly realised he could be the one! It’s actually where we met our now adopted children, Benjamin and Deborah.’

Although they lived thousands of miles apart and came from very different cultures, they both agreed to keep the friendship alive as something special had just started. Zoë had to return to Ireland to finish her University degree but that didn’t stop the communication between Simon and her, with Zoë always feeling he was there with her since they spoke on the phone up to fifteen times a day! It wasn’t long before they were in a relationship and the travelling back and forth began.

The Proposal

Zoë found an offer online for a couple’s photo shoot, being a huge fan of photography she jumped at the chance and booked it. She treasures photos as they have the ability to show so much emotion and share a story.

Unknown to her, Simon had been planning a surprise proposal! She had no idea he already had picked out a ring. The photoshoot took place on the grounds of Mussenden Temple near Benone, Co. Londonderry.

Zoë remembers being really nervous for the photo shoot and thought the second photographer arranged by Simon to take sneaky photos was another tourist! Simon had arranged for there to be candles and rose petals inside the temple, how romantic!

Zoë remarks ‘it was like a fairy tale. I don’t think I would have cared in the moment even if it was in my backyard, it was just perfect, there wasn’t a dry eye in the place!’

The Venue

Zoë and Simon chose Lusty Beg Island Resort as their venue as they really wanted a relaxed and rustic summer atmosphere and thought Lusty Beg was the perfect fit.

The young couple chose a bohemian theme, as Zoë loves the classy, elegant twist it has. She also incorporated a whimsical feel to the day with the use of foliage, hair crowns and wooden decorations; perfect for a hot summer wedding.

Another thing close to their hearts was incorporating both sides of their cultures, and it was achieved with many little cultural elements; such as a Ugandan Coffee Bar and Africa shaped shortbread on arrival to the Lusty Beg. At the end of the night there was an Ireland versus Uganda dance off between the bridal party, made possible by The Coves, an Irish folk band hired for the evening.

What The Bride Wore And The Rest

After visiting two bridal boutiques with her mum, aunt and sister, Zoë had her ‘this is the one moment’ in Creative Ideas Bridal in Armagh. This surprised her as she can be quite indecisive; but she absolutely knew this was the one. ‘The staff were just incredible and couldn’t do enough to ensure I found the one!’

Zoë tried on a total of four dresses, her advice to any brides searching for their dream dress is ‘dare to try on styles you wouldn’t imagine yourself in. I tried on so many different styles, the ones I thought I would like didn’t really suit me, and ones I thought would look ridiculous were fabulous. Also, don’t take too many family or friends, as too many opinions can be difficult!’

The bridesmaid’s dresses were from the online retailer website, ASOS. Zoë wanted to find something a little different, but a dusty, vintage blue was always the colour on her mind. The dresses found on ASOS paired with gold jewellery and shoes tied in so well with the relaxed, whimsical vibe of the day and was exactly the look Zoë imagined.

The men‘s suits were from Tom Morrow’s Shop in Dungannon, Co Tyrone, who were extremely helpful in the process of selecting the attire. The men were dressed in dark navy suits paired with slick navy and white polka dot ties that complemented the blue bridesmaids perfectly.

Wedding Flowers

Zoë and Simon picked Nettles and Petals from Fintona Co. Tyrone, with Roisin creating their dreamy, rustic look.

Zoë admits she’s not a big lover of bright colours and preferred the foliage look as it reminds her of her home. ‘I love greenery at a wedding, it looks timeless in photographs,’ comments Zoë.

Outside Simon’s parent’s home, there is an Olive Leaf Tree that reminds Zoë of home every time she sees it. The Olive Leaf was a part of the foliage in the bouquets as well as a navy-blue Irish thistle that matched the blue bridesmaids dresses.

The thistle was also added to the men’s buttonholes to accompany the bouquets. At the front of the church there stood large foliage pillars that were brought to overlook the lake at Lusty Beg for the perfect backdrop for photos. ‘The wild foliage was the perfect look for the hot summer’s day.’

Décor

Zoë ’s friend Danielle, from Keyhole Creations brought to life exactly what was in Zoë ’s head.

‘For me, stationery sets the scene pre-wedding and I really wanted it to reflect us as a couple, our cultures and our wedding day.’ All of the stationery featured a foliage garland with a little hint of blue to match with the colour scheme. The table setting was mounted on a dark wooden stand handmade by Zoë’s uncle and decorated by the florist. The invitations and table menus featured an outlined golden image of the continent of Africa.

A natural born decorator and creative thinker, Zoë wanted to bring many aspects together to create a day that was both beautiful and enjoyed by the guests! Even though Zoë was in Uganda working for Obulamu Ministries, she managed to plan the perfect day with keeping in contact with suppliers and with the help of her amazing Mum, who had a great part to play in the wedding and went along with any crazy ideas Zoë had!

The foliage look followed into the main hall with each table decorated with eucalyptus, olive leaves with fern ascending from the candelabra’s as though naturally there. For their wedding favours, Zoë and Simon had small African baskets that are handmade by a group of Ugandan women in Kampala, which provided money for them and their families, meaning their children can go to school and eat well. Inside the baskets was a single Lindor sweet. ‘We loved this idea of incorporating Ugandan culture as well as giving back in a small way to the people we love so dearly in Uganda.’

They added to the already rustic hall with fairy lights along the roof from McGarry Lights and Flowers, and there also stood a brass stand made by Zoë’s uncle beside the cake stand, which held a scroll with 1 Corinthians 13’s ‘Love is’ transcribed by Zoë’s friend Chloe from Bible College, which also stood at the front of the church as they said their vows.

Photographer

The photographer who captured Zoë and Simon’s big day were Han & Dan Media.

Zoë comments they chose Han and Dan because she was looking for a photographer that had a candid, relaxed look and someone that could capture the true emotion of their day. ‘We loved Han and Dan’s style and that they were a young and newly married couple so they knew from experience what photos we would want!’

Food

Due to the date of their wedding and the possibility of very hot weather, Zoë and Simon opted for a less traditional menu and decided instead to choose a gourmet barbecue feast, as they are both big lovers of summer food. ‘Lusty Beg were very obliging and drew up a gourmet menu which had every guest raving about for weeks!’ they said.

For starters they had a variety of fresh breads with an option of dips to include Balsamic Vinegar, Olive oil, Tapenade and Sun-dried Tomato pesto. Then their main consisted of Luxury Buffet BBQ of Chicken Satay Kebab, Tandoori Chicken Leg, Salmon with Coconut, Lime and Garlic or Sirloin Steak with Brown Sugar, Miso and Chinese Spice that came with delicious sides of seasonal roasted vegetables such as butternut squash and peppers, pomegranate salad, baby and sweet potato salad and more. For dessert they had white and milk chocolate brownies with vanilla ice cream and chocolate sauce.

Zoë remarks ‘almost every guest was seen sneaking out for a second share of the food – it was just perfect for the sizzling hot day. From start to finish it was the best decision we made. I’m still being complimented greatly on our menu choice. Many friends have also chosen a similar menu choice for their wedding day meal!’

Cake

When it came to the cake, Zoë knew she wanted to visit Caledon Cake Studio, it didn’t take her long to choose her perfect cake.

‘Jill is so skilled at what she does. I had to try to choose something not too sweet as Ugandan’s don’t have a sweet tooth but when Jill convinced me to try her raspberry and white chocolate sample, I was hooked!’ Zoë comments.

The cake’s style was simple with a hint of vintage blue and gold and a favourite Scripture verse ‘I’ve found the one whom my soul loves’ written in gold to finish off her dream cake.

Favourite Moments

Simon’s favourite moment: ‘Definitely watching Zoë enter and walk down the aisle behind our beautiful little boy and girl. It was the most overwhelming moment of my life. I didn’t think I would cry at that moment but I couldn’t hold it back. I also loved the dance off at the end of the day between Zoë’s friends and family and mine. It was absolutely hilarious!’

Zoë’s favourite moment : ‘I was so excited to see Simon all morning before getting to Church – it was really hard not being able to talk to him the whole morning! The best moment of the day was seeing him standing at the top of the aisle ready for me to walk towards him. That moment was so surreal, looking up at him and our beautiful kids as well as all of our family & friends there to support us, as they always had, it was just a dream. I was always so excited to just be his wife, but our wedding day was for sure one of the best days of my life!’

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