Bride Diaries: The Dress
Having worked in the wedding industry for almost two years and with experience in both bridal retail and editorial, I thought I would bring you all along on my journey from Miss to Mrs whilst sharing some helpful hints, tips and advice for all you budding brides! First up: The quest for the dream dress.
As I had previously worked as a bridal consultant at the lovely Ivory & Pearl Bridal Boutique (a must visit for all stylish brides!), I suppose I thought picking a dress would be easy since I had dressed so many other brides and I knew exactly what styles suited me. But – when it came to choosing my own, I’ll confess in the beginning it was harder than I thought because admittedly – I am fussy!
As I work in the industry, I knew which designers and styles of dresses that I liked, so I began my research by creating a Pinterest board of my favourite wedding day looks. Knowing what I liked also made my selection of bridal stores easier to narrow down, as I could research the brands they stocked beforehand. This is a great starting point for any bride-to-be beginning their search, so I highly recommend researching which designers they stock at your chosen bridal store, so you know what to expect.
Convinced I would have to travel further afield to try on a bigger selection of dresses as I had such a specific style in mind, I decided to make a list of boutiques to try in Northern Ireland to see how I would get on. After visiting a few stores but to no avail, I worried about finding a dress that had the ‘wow factor’, fitted my vision for the day and flattered my petite pear shape, meaning the pressure began to mount.
On a sunny day in April, I decided to take a trip to the North Coast with my mum and two of my bridesmaids for a spot of girly lunch before some bridal shopping in town to really make a day out of it. I had spotted a dress on Marie Therese Bridal’s website the previous night and immediately fell in love with it, so I went with the hope that this was in store.
Lo and behold, as I walked up the stairs in this beautiful store, the dress caught my eye straight away and I asked the bridal assistant if I could try it on first! To me – no other dress in the store compared- and as I stood in front of the salon mirrors I thought to myself ‘I feel like me in this dress’. Elegant, chic, modern and feminine it ticked all the boxes in what I was looking for and I felt a whoosh of excitement!
Being the analytical Virgo that I am, I analysed every little detail thinking about how it would look with my overall theme. Although I kept my thoughts somewhat reserved, I knew it was perfect for me and what’s more, my mum and bridesmaids loved it just as much! I then tried on a simple veil which really brought together the whole look and made me feel like a bride, there really is no feeling like it!
As this was such a big decision, (and one of the most important wedding planning decisions in my opinion) I didn’t want to get swept up in the moment and decided to sleep on my decision. I arranged an appointment for the following Tuesday evening to go back to the boutique myself to try the dress on again to see how I felt – I loved it even more, and having the personal time to reflect on the dress meant I could happily seal the deal the next morning!
Although I found my dress a lot earlier than expected, I can’t wait to wear it on our big day, I know I couldn’t find a more perfect dress for me.
My Top Six Dress Shopping Tips
Don’t bring an entourage of people to your appointment
This can get confusing and stressful for many brides. Bring two-four of your nearest and dearest style advisors to avoid conflicting opinions.
Make a Pinterest board
Whether you make a scrapbook of magazine cut-outs or a digital mood-board on Pinterest, this is a great way to gather your ideas and see a theme emerge. It’s also handy for showing bridal retail consultants the styles you like at your appointments.
Be open minded
Trust me when I say dresses look SO different on the hanger than they do on the body! Be open minded, try something out of your comfort zone and trust the experts to what they think will suit you.
Wear suitable underwear
Invest in some nude, seamless undergarments and wear them to your bridal appointment for the best indication on what a gown will look like, as well as making you feel great!
Do your research
Be sure to research which designer’s individual bridal boutiques stock. This way, you can choose the right store for you based on whether your style is bohemian, classic, vintage, glamorous or other.
Relax and enjoy this whole experience! This is such a special occasion and one you will remember forever. Be patient and the right dress will come along when you least expect it.
For more help and advice in finding your dream wedding dress, check out our guide on how to successfully shop for your wedding dress